nightmare 4year old

lily3108 · #1 09-28-2008, 09:43 PM

hi i am new to this site, have sent a few msgs to people, but now i need some advice, I have a son will who is 7 and jack who is 4 and lily my little girl who is 17 months.
Jack is normally very polite and behaved to a certain point, but recently we have moved house and his behaviour has changed dramatically, he says he hates me and his dad and fights with william and just doesn't listen to a thing i say. when we are out shopping it's a nightmare he just runs and runs and i can't keep up with him sometimes when i have lily either in the buggy or walking along side me. any advice on what i could do with him?
i have been to the docs thinking he had A.D.H.D but they have said hes just an active kid and as for the attitude and swearing it's a phase they go through, i'm not so sure.

CoNFuSeD24 · #2 09-30-2008, 01:12 PM

It could be anything... maybe this move has put him of wack and things his was used to have changed. Maybe once his settled from the move he might clam down.. I'm not sure. Sorry I cant help.

lily3108 · #3 09-30-2008, 01:19 PM

yeah your probably right just wish i could have my jack back when he was sweet and innocent

CoNFuSeD24 · #4 09-30-2008, 01:21 PM

He will be back. hehe Could be anything. Maybe ask why he is naughty?!?! Just to see what he says.

Emaliz · #5 10-08-2008, 11:24 AM

Hi, one my sisters moved house & her youngetst who's 2 n half at time dramatically changed for quite few weeks after they moved. She was screaming and alsorts. They were going insane wi it all. Then she just gradually started to settle down back to her own self so maybe its a simular thing.
My daughter when was 5 went thru a phase for well over a week of going to the toilet about 30 times or more a day a day, literally 5 times in 5 mins we were so worried so took her to docs n did urine test which was clear they gave her 3 day course antibiotis to be precatious but in end found out quite normal n was down to her nervousness as it was the schools hols so out routine plus was build up to her birthday & going on holiday the day of her birthday & her bday party straight when we got bak off hol. We never would thought it would of had such dramtic affect but as found out things that are different can shake a child up & affect them alot so maybe it could be cos you've moved. If it started afterwards then it sounds like it. Hope he feels better soon & your ok coping with it x

tracy16 · #6 11-18-2008, 01:42 AM

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Originally Posted by lily3108

hi i am new to this site, have sent a few msgs to people, but now i need some advice, I have a son will who is 7 and jack who is 4 and lily my little girl who is 17 months.
Jack is normally very polite and behaved to a certain point, but recently we have moved house and his behaviour has changed dramatically, he says he hates me and his dad and fights with william and just doesn't listen to a thing i say. when we are out shopping it's a nightmare he just runs and runs and i can't keep up with him sometimes when i have lily either in the buggy or walking along side me. any advice on what i could do with him?
i have been to the docs thinking he had A.D.H.D but they have said hes just an active kid and as for the attitude and swearing it's a phase they go through, i'm not so sure.

hi Lily,
dont worry, the doc is right. it i just a phase he is going through. i also have a daughter, she is just year old but she takes the whole upside down when it comes to play time and the most irritatingthing i to take food and run behind them so they gulp it down. she never feels hungry you know and that worried me so i too consulted 2-3 docs and they said she is a very active child and has less eating interest . so this may follow till she is 5........

Why me?

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mumofmonsters · #7 11-19-2008, 01:17 PM

Hi, Im Nicola, mum to Jess, 7, Alfie, 5 and Jamie 20 months and one on the way. Ive had worries over the years that my Alfie may have some kind of problems cos he was so hard to handle at times. However now hes at school hes settled alot, he still has days where I wonder where I got him from and if he has any problems, but on the whole hes alot better now. Boys I think can be hard work and find it difficult to adjust to new situations and to express their feelings other than to hit out. Dont worry, he will be all sweet again and youll wonder what you were worried about. Take care