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Old 07-31-2008, 10:34 AM
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my little girl is 3 going on 30. she talks to me like i would expect from my mum. yes it can be funny and everyone around me thinks its great coz shes such a funny character but it is getting increasingly hard to deal with at home an it is starting to become a problem at school. elise does not like being told what to do. by me or her teachers. we have been working together to try to get her behaviour to change. i have trouble sticking to my word with her as i suffer from deppression and often find my self sayin oh jus get on with it. then feel so guilty because her behaviour will never change, n im jus like what am i supposed to do.
i watch super nanny and must of tried her techniques a million times. elise doesnt do the naughty step she will just scream at me for hour on end n jus will not listen
im jus like god help me, i dont like losin my temper with her but... it jus gets so hard. shes constantly on time out at school. n it jus doesnt seem to phase her. ive had health visitors and nursery nurses here to watch her for signs of ADHD or autism they say there is nothing wrong.
what do i do.

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Old 07-31-2008, 02:25 PM
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I had something similar with my little boy when he was a similar age and felt exactly like you do, except I felt more guilty cos my oldest had to miss out on some things or give in to him cos he used to get so out of control. I tried everything to get him to behave, out stairs are near the front door and when i tried the naughty step he just legged it down the road! He wasnt at school, just playschool for a few hours a day and there he was bad but not too bad. I kept it too myself mostly cos i thought it was something i was doing and when people spoke to me about him i would be close to tears. God knows what i did, i just started to put my foot down more and not let him have his way and then when i had my third baby and he got less attention, not intentionally of course, and he was treated more like he was more grown up he just changed. He still has times where hes a nightmare and some terrible tantrums but they are very short and easily sorted out, mostly now he is a very loving, caring boy. So all i can say is try to stick with it and it will pass, all these things do, even though it doesnt seem like it at the moment, try to let her do more grown up things and let her be more grown up, if shes anything like my daughter that will soon put her off. And just try to bear with the tantrums and ignore her, if she sees its having an effect it just teaches her what to do to get her way, good luck.
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Old 07-31-2008, 10:51 PM
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oh i hope it does i feel like im at the end of my tether and jus dont know wot else to do. she seems to ave selective hearing lol.
i love kids and work wiv kids and ive never known a child like her.
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Its always different when its your own, jess is an angel at school and will do anything for her teachers yet at home, i struggle to get her to put her shoes away. She is 7 going on 17 and hard work cos she thinks shes alot older than she is and knows it all. But for as much hassle they give me they give me twice as many laughs as they older.
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Old 08-01-2008, 02:14 PM
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elise is a barrel off laughs 2. shes hillarious. little devil is all i can call ehr she can switch it on n off like a light switch, shes been pretty good 2day apart from scream for a mcdonalds then not want it. lol
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