Bad Relationship

[Ann-Marie]

Hiya everyone for you's who dont know me im Ann-Marie and i'm 19.
Well when i was 12-13 i started going out with a lad called Wayne things were ok but he was older than me he was 14 or 15 (cant remember exactly)
We seen each other everyday and he started driving cars without license's and i use to run away from home to be with him, (although i wish i never did)
I moved out of my parents house when i was 16 moved in with him and thats when it all started if i didnt do something right i got a slap or something flung at me for something stupid like if i put too much milk on his breakfast cereal.
I didnt dare do anything and i had to ask his permission to go out.
I got offered a job to work away so i took the chance he was alright at first but when i use to come home at weekend i got accused of everything and he was the one with loads of people in the house girls aswell. But me being soft towards him just let him get on with it and let it go over my head because he had me exactly were he wanted me. Everyday was like hell for me i couldnt talk to anyone because i couldnt see my friends for him as i would be accused of everything. I didnt dare tell my parents anything i just pretended everything was ok. I was alone and scared. Scared incase i said something wrong because i knew it would end up with a slap or something far worse. After my 17 birthday i started working closer to home and thats when wayne went really down hill and use to attack people for no reason he put one in hospital and got charged with GBH with intent. I was quite relieved but scared because i got the blame for everything. In December 2004 he got sentenced to 4 and half years in prison.
So after he had been in for a while i finally plucked up the courage to end our relationship through a letter. He phoned he wrote in done everything to get in touch with me to ask me back. Only a few weeks/months back he tried again. I kept saying no and he would say he would come after me when he got out so i had to contact the prison and it all has stopped and for him harrassing me he got extra months and he doesnt get his parole which is a relief.
All the years of torcher (7 years) can now be forgotten i needed to get this out but no body knows what went on properly.
Finally i met my new boyfriend he is completley the opposite from that scum bag (thank god)
Now as you's know im nearly 29 weeks pregnant with my first baby and we are so happy together. Im so glad i found him he is the best thing that ever happened to me.
Thanks for listening
Take Care
Love Ann-Marie
xx

[c.a.cullum]

oh ann-marie...im so sorry u had to go thru such a horrible experience...and at such a young age!!!! im really glad u have found a gr8 man now and even more so that that wanker is finally out of ur life!!! :smile: i had a similar experience wen i was younger but luckily for me i got out of it b4 things got too bad!!! i knida thank him for it tho coz if it weren for how bad he treated me i wud probably have settled for 2nd best..he made me realise that i wud only settle for someone i love and with some1 who treated me the way i deserved to be treated!!! i hope u r able to find that good things can happen thru bad experiences!!! does that make sense!! xx

[pinkydinkydo]

ohh huni your story is so sad but you found the one now & in relationships you have to go through alot of dud toffee's until you find the strawberry creams...just glad you have found yours now & i wish you all the luck in the world!!!!

I'm glad you're out too and with a decent man and having a beautiful baby! Good on you, everybody deserves to be happy.

[Ann-Marie]

Thank you for reading my posts,
Im so glad im out of it and plucked up the courage to tell people. But still my mam and dad dont know the half of it. I've explained abit to my boyfriend and he is really understanding.
When you say in your post c.a.cullum about if it never happened to you you would have probably stuck for second best. I probably think i would have if he never went to prison but thank god he did now its his turn for the hurt and the pain what i got put through. But then again it probably wont be half as bad as what i got he will be living it up in prison with tv's, playstations the lot. I just hope when he does finally get out i never see him again.
Thanks again.
Take Care
Love Ann-Marie
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[emxxx]

I am glad it has turned out for the best and goodluck looking forward to the future

[emmal20]

im glad u found sum1 beter and so perfect for u congratulations