do i stay or do i go now.....

[becky]

so am i correct in thinking, his in his country, your in the uk, and he is controlling you via telephone?
sorry hun if i have misunderstood anything!

xx

[sleepyjess]

haha! no the controling was whilst we were lving together in spain! i am just worried about it contiuning here. when we first togetehr it was fine it was when i got preggers that he got bossy

[becky]

arh i see, sorry lol. u never know hun, it may all be different if you sat and had words? prehaps tell him how u really feel, and that you dont feel your in controll of your own person anymore?
xx

[sleepyjess]

thats what i am hoping. we'll just have to see what happens!! everything all right with you?

[becky]

hope it works out well for you hun!!

yeah im ok thanks,

xx

[emmal20]

hi how r u n ur husband me n my husband are both muslim i dont work i havent the time my hubby will let me work i want to be a teacher so im going to study i hope to work part time i have friends i c one every week he sometimes trys to control me but gets no were doing that i put my foot down girl u need to put ur foot down n tell him ur not a muslim and u got ur own things to do my mum was married to my dad and wasnt muslim she celebrated christmas and went out not so much as pubs but places were ppl drank girl if he controls u he cant trust u for some reason spend a whole day talking argueing untill u sort something out thats wot i do and it works even in islam a woman got ryts i hope things workout for da both

[emmal20]

hi how r u n ur husband me n my husband are both muslim i dont work i havent the time my hubby will let me work i want to be a teacher so im going to study i hope to work part time i have friends i c one every week he sometimes trys to control me but gets no were doing that i put my foot down girl u need to put ur foot down n tell him ur not a muslim and u got ur own things to do my mum was married to my dad and wasnt muslim she celebrated christmas and went out not so much as pubs but places were ppl drank girl if he controls u he cant trust u for some reason spend a whole day talking argueing untill u sort something out thats wot i do and it works even in islam a woman got ryts i hope things workout for da both

[mumm*]

I THINK THAT U SHOULD TALK TO HIM AND TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL IF U AREN'T HAPPY IN THE RELATIONSHIP THEN U SHOULD TELL HIM HUNNY IF ITS UPSETTING U @shades@ @780@

[emmal20]

hi i was reading through and u said he got bossy wen u were prggeres im not trying to be rude or nosey but i think its because in da muslim religion we not allowed to do these few things if u ask him about that c his opinion and talk it myt be btr for u

[emmal20]

hows every thing have u sorted ur self out