do i stay or do i go now.....

[sleepyjess]

hey all, um i have been with my partner for 2 years so we fell pregnant real quick . um he is muslim not praccticing. it is not a problem in itself but it can mean he can be very controlling. he wont let me out with friends and ...well its hard to explain i just feel i have changer everything about who i ma now. i used to work in a night club and always had a laugh. my freinds have always been guys really which of course he wont accept. i just have a lot of resentment for him and dont really know if i love him anymore.i need advice.. help!

[clare bear]

well hun all i can say is you know your awn mind, if your not happy then dont stay, but only you can decided.

I think you need to sit down the pair of you and put your cards on the table. No-body else can do it for you and it sounds like the sooner the better. Good luck hun ***

[sassysan]

hey, firstly dont feel ashamed that you fell pregnant quick, ive been with my man 2 and a half years too and fell pregnant quick as well

but to answer your question should you stay or should you go, i think you pretty much answered your own question when you said that your starting to resent him. if this was me in your situation i would break up with him but be amazing parents separately. i think i would have to get out of there before i started to hate him.

im not really good with advice, but i hope you are happy with whatever you decide.x

[rileysmam]

like debi said u need to put the cards on the table and sort it out b4 it gets to the point were u cant stand him and that wouldnt be fair on ur baby u have ur own mind hun and u have 2 decie if thats what u want because unfortunatly u cant spend the rest of ur life being controlled

[Debbielou]

you know how you feel, if you feel you dont want to bw with him any more then go, but if you love him sit him down and tell him his behaviour is gonna make him lsoe you. good luck sweet

[becky]

how are things now? have you sorted them out?

[sleepyjess]

hi, no i have not really sorted anything else. i am waiting for him ti get here at the moment(waiting for visa) so i cant really do anything until then!!

[becky]

how long does that take? any idear

[sleepyjess]

well the court date is set for 9th july so we will find out then. he go refused the first time so are appealing now thats why going to court.