His Reply Wasnt Good

[ladiesophie]

i finally plucked up the courage to tlk to him
i told him bout the flirty n everything n asked him
y he doesnt come round anymore he said tht its hard
being him.
I asked if he didn't want to see me anymore
he replied its your decison.
we both came away form the convsation
with tears in our eye
what shall i do ?


read the thread Finally! for catch up !

[krazykezz]

omg sounds like he doesnt want to leave u, ave u asked him whats on his mind?

[happyhappylady]

why is it hard for him to come round? i really feel for you, at a time when you need support he's messing you about. saying 'it's your decision' puts the emphasis on you. tell him to be a man and be straight with you for the sake of you and your baby. if he continues to mess about, then move on - someone else could really love and support you and your child.

[krazykezz]

i totally agree with happyhappylady

[ladiesophie]

but wat shall i do shall i break it off or not ?
but the thing is i have too see him the next day at skl:S

[happyhappylady]

It's really hard to say what's right for you in your situation - all I can say is what I would do, which would be to ask him what his feelings are for you and also your baby. if he is vague, or says he doesn't know, remind him he has a moral and financial responsibility (when he is earning) for the baby - how would he feel if his dad wasn't interested? then tell him to be in touch to arrange contact, walk away and let him make the next move. maybe talking to your or his parents could help, but don't take any rubbish. good luck!

[Charlie_x]

hun the best thing ive learned in my life is if you love someone let them go and if they honestly truly love you they will come back to you sooner or later x

[sandra]

oh hun, i do hope things get better for u. but advice wise, i think happyhappylady has got it in one. good luck tho hun. xx xx

[Alison]

i think you should turn your back on him he will be runningback to yoou in no time thats if he truly loes you this is a harsh thing to say but men fin it ard to break up with women and they do get emotional

[emmal20]

i i agree wiv x.Young.Mummy.2.be.x because i know its hard to walk away from him but thats a big test for him if he loves u he will not let u leave him if he doesnt he will help u pack