i do not know what to do

[alexis]

i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years he has never hit me in till know. he is not my babys dad and he nows that. but 2 days ago he said to every one that i had sex with my brother and he is the dad and when i went to talk to him about it he said if i ever tell any one that it is not real he would kill me and then he hit me in my back. my mum nows about it and she said i have to get him done for it i do not now if i sould and i do not now how to tell him its over

[pinky29]

hi hun man this is just horrid he doesn''t sound like a very nice man to say & do this to you & your family! i think hun you should try to get him to talk to you maybe with someone who is not your family to be there as a caution just to sit there & not speak. but if it were me & it's not me hun i would be straight out that door & if he came after me i would be telling the police & maybe getting a resraining order on him. i know it sounds harsh & it will be very hard to cut you ties but my love 1- do you want to bring your child into this world with bad vibes around you & 2- do you want to be hit in your relationship because maybe one day it might go that little bit further!
good luck hun what ever you do & remember we are always here for you x

[krazykezz]

i totally agree with what pinky29 has said. i think u should think about what would be best. if you bring your child into the world where ur bf is hitting u then u could have ur child taken away from u if ur not careful, im not trying to scare u but if u stay with someone who is violent ur child will pick up on it and maybe turn out the same, i know hes only hit u once but still if hes hit u once hell hit u again, its upto u hun to do whats right

[melanie]

im sorry to be so blunt here,but u need to get rid of him big time!!do u really want to bring your kid up with someone who gets kicks out of things like this?

[CoNFuSeD24]

I agree with all the comments made. I think you need to kick his ass out ya life hun and when you do have someone with you so if he hits you they witness it or even stop him before he does hit you.

[c.a.cullum]

bless ya hun!! wot a thing to have to deal with!! the ladies r rite tho!! u gotta get him outta ur life now.. b4 the baby arrives!! u can do it hun..b strong and there is help out there for u!! i wish u all the best and we'r all here if u need to talk! :-)

[geordie]

my ex was a violent dick,all the lasses are right leave him and never look bak if hes done it once he will do it again and again not matter what he says and how much he says he is sorry

[BettyBoo]

omg hun hessick..honest i couldnt put up with that, if hes hit u once hell do it again hun and u cant risk it being pg hun xx

[krazykezz]

also sorry to be a little over dramatic here but what if he hits u really hard in ur stomach? you could lose your, do u really want that? i know it may seem im having a go at you, im really not hun, i just think you should get rid of him before he causes u too much heartache, trust me i know what losing a baby feels like. i just wouldnt want it happening to you.

[alexis]

ok today me and my brother(jock) went to see my now ex boyfriend(dan) and the best thing ever happened jock hit dan in the ..younowhat.. and said if he ever go's there me and my family ones more he would kill him and then dan just ran off i just did not now what to do it was so funny i wish i had a cam.well now he is out of my life for ever. thanks for the help girls