i love him but...

[stacy_elise]

arrgghhhh my boyfriend can be so annoyin we have been together almost 2 years now and we seem 2 constantly argue. its doing my head in its always over his ex wife or hes said something then later forgets and swears blind he hasnt sed nothing it drives me up the wall im jus like how can ure memory b so flamin bad lol. he is gettin better bout his ex wife i have to admit he doesnt run n jump at her every beckon call, like he used to up until bout 6 month ago made me always feel like 2nd best.
im so stressed at the mo coz its like bein on a see saw one week were great the next were almost splittin up. jus crackin me up now i love him so bloomin much n thats why its hard. x

[Charlie_x]

i hope you get things sorted soon hun sounds like just the 2 of you could do with a break away together! x

[CoNFuSeD24]

Awww sorry to hear of your troubled times. Hopefuly everything will get sorted soon for ya.

[Lynne]

Hope things get better soon, i guess you will just have to persevere with it as hard as it may seem. Going away for a break does sound llike a good idea. Hope things get a bit better soon x

[stacy_elise]

funny you say that. he gets a week off work from the 16th and i said i think we need some time alone ive got a babysitter and everything and he jus complained he cant afford to although he has savings of a £1000.
we have his 4 kids on a weekend 2 stayin over night and i deal with this but he cant seem to compromise 4 me, argghhhhh.

[emmal20]

ive been married four years now and we still argue it will get better for u just got to be a little stubbern to get him to compramise like me with mohamed

[mumofmonsters]

You are a very strong girl, sure you will get through it. Most men dont seem to have the compromise bone in them, he probably doesnt realise that he is bothering you. If you can get a break take it, me and my hubby need a break but cant get sitters and we have probs and I know a break would help but just cant get one. If you love him you will find a way and if hes getting more understanding it must mean hes trying for you too, just takes longer for men to realise. Hope you get it sorted soon, sounds like you deserve and need a breakxx

[happyhappylady]

is it really worth it? how do you see yourself in a year's time? hope you make the right decisions for you and your kids

[stacy_elise]

he was home this weekend and we had a really good talk, i told him how i have been feeling, and he said he will try 2 take me away when he has the week off, we are going to the lake district, well im sorry but am i the only 1 that thinks going on holiday in this country is almost as expensive as going abroad. especially 2 the lake district it costs a bomb.
dont get me wrong i can see he is tryin but he has sed this b4 and within a few weeks hes bk 2 his normal self, argghhh. MEN.

[Lynne]

At least he is trying a bit, maybe this will be the start of something new (sorry didn't mean to purposly quote HSM there lol). Give him a chance n see how things go, hopefully they'll improve x