i think john does

[sassysan]

it may be me and my paranoia, but the signs are there.

whenever i try to initiate sex, there is always a reason for him to not have it. i cant remember the last time when he tried for sex. he never invites me anywhere anymore. he stops out with his "mate" and stays at his. im absolutely heartbroken, and confused cuz he still says he loves me. i need some advice

[pinkydinkydo]

hey hun sorry your sad well girl i think its about time you both sat down & put your cards on the table tell him how your feeling & that you need to know if he still wants you or finds you attractive tell him that if he doesn't want to be in the relationship no more then he must say so for the sake of your little one as its not fair for her! but i would really sit him down & talk to him thats the only way your gonna find out the problem! good luck hope it all works out sweet! pinky hugs coming your way!

Oh that must be horrible feeling the way you do but like Pinky said unless you sit and talk about it you're never going to solve the problem. Good luck and lots of love ***

[Debbielou]

I agree with all that pinky said, you really need to talk to him and let him know how you feel and how him being like this is affecting you. Good luck babe.

[rileysmam]

sit him down and make him tell u whats up its the only way u will sort things out. best of luck chick

[shell]

You both definately need to have a good heart to heart hun. I hope that it's something simple hun. Good luck. All my love shell x

[sassysan]

well we had a good chat last night when ashley went to bed. being the typical male, he hadnt a clue i was feeling this way. anyway he said i was talking shite (this is his way of saying dont be stupid) and that he still loves me and finds me attractive. he proved this in the bedroom later!

as for him staying out he is with mates and i told him he is going to have to spend more time with me and ashley and tell this one mate in particular (who is single with no commitments) to back off a bit.

so all is well in sassy's house again

[shell]

Im really pleased that everything is good between you both again

[Debbielou]

I'm so pleased all is well agin. It proves men miss a lot!

[pinkydinkydo]

glad to hear all is well now chick!!!