Life is to comfotable??!! - Page 2

melanie · #11 04-09-2008, 02:11 PM

no prob hun,anytime you need a chat,you know what to do.

c.a.cullum · #12 04-10-2008, 02:47 PM

wow hun..all that and just 20! i think u r doing the right thing!! u do not want to stay somewhere where u r unhappy and also as u said u cant ask ur OH to make that decision so as u have..u had to!! its such a shame things cudnt have worked out but u r young and able to make a fresh start and enjoy life.. and ur main responsibility is maddie and urself!! :-) i hope everything goes smoothly for u... and TBH i think u r better off away from the mother and her B/F.... its disgusting that she has made that decision and i cud neva understand anything like that!!!
take care!! :-)

madisonmitzi · #13 04-11-2008, 11:20 AM

Hey c.a.cullum, i feel like my life is a story book lol its kinda strange explaining it to other people, but feels good aswell.
Yer I am lucky I'm only 20. I can do alot of things I want to do. Like travelling to Australia in a few weeks lol

Thanks for your support xxxx

man2008 · #14 04-12-2008, 08:10 AM

I think you must not marry the guy who is a divorcee, if you would like to marry search for someone who is single. One cannot tell in advance what would happen and who will come back to you.

You must make your time and earn some extra fun.

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emmal20 · #15 04-21-2008, 06:16 PM

i think your a strong girl and are doing the ryt thing smile

emmal20 · #16 05-20-2008, 09:07 AM

im glad u sorted ur self out i hope u have a grt time in austrailia

stacy_elise · #17 05-20-2008, 03:33 PM

omg what an unusual story, i cant believe any mother would choose her boyfriend over her kids i know i could never do it. i understand where your coming from when it comes to takin n another persons children, my boyfriend is father to 4 kids aged 5-13, n i know for a fact i could not cope if for sum reason we had to have them, im only 22. i feel for you, if u truly love the man coz its the hardest decision in the world to make but if ure not happy because of the kids (as awful as that sounds) u cant stay, its not fair on u or ure own child, enjoy life not have regrets wen ure older. x

happyhappylady · #18 05-20-2008, 09:13 PM

my partner had a similair situation. He had 5 kids to his wife, who left him, took the kids and got a new partner who was then found guilty of a sex offence. The courts told her 'him or the kids', and she chose the perv, so she moved out and my partner moved back in with his kids to bring them up! it is totally unbeliveable, but I have peadofiles and they are the best liars you could imagine. No doubt he will have a heart-rending story, which someone may believe if they're gullable enough.

from your story, your boyfriend is not 'the one' - I hope this doesn't sound patronising, but when I was a teenager I met 'the one' and now I am getting divorced. As you get older you wise up and realise there's someone else miles better out there. You are sooo doing the right thing - you're only young and you have a life ahead. hope it goes well