Lilys dad

[Bubbles19]

Hi everyone just wanted some advice.Before lily was born her dad did some not so nice things.He would go out all the time and leave me for his mates,he was taking drugs and i heard rumors he was cheating.When i was pregnant i was to scared to leave im cos of being on my own with lily thought i would not be able to cope.He took sum of her things and sold them for money which i blame my self for but i had no choice at the time he just took them.Know she is here he has changed and stopped the drugs and drinking and wants me to forgive im but i find myself not wanting to be with im and hating im for wot he has done even though he is trying i just cnt seem to forget it.Has anyone got n e advice i dnt know wot to do i dnt wnt it to affect lily please help x x it took me a while to write dis been wanting to do it 4 wks xx[/code]

[clare bear]

go with your heart chic i know that dont help much but only you know what you want to do. i suppose if i was in your position id maybe stay friends for a while and see how that went,then when i knew the trust was there id go a step futher.if he loves you chic he will wait for you.do you know for sure the drug taking has stopped ?
have you sat down and talked to him about how you feel,or would you find that hard to do ?

[CoNFuSeD24]

Aww hun I think you should do what you think is right. I mean if you let him back into your life things could go back the way they where and he could hurt you again then again maybe he has changed and will do right by you... but who really knows? In life we all take chances some good... some bad... But you have to think of Lilly first because in the end Lilly will be the one who will get hurt.

[Bubbles19]

i have told im how i feel but he just ignores it because he thinks it is going to be ok.yes the drugs have stopped as far as i know he is not as moody or angry ne more as he was.i av told im its going to take time i just dnt want to let im bk in and it happens again not cos of me but 4 lily she is my world and cums first.i will most prob jus c how it goes oh i dnt know confused sorry to kp goin on jus helps 2 talk. x

[CoNFuSeD24]

Aww hun I woulnt blame you for being confused coz I would be too. We are always here if you need someone to talk to.

[Bubbles19]

Thankyou x

[CoNFuSeD24]

you are most welcome hun *huggggggggggggggs*

[Sammy-mummy-to-Jake]

awww Hun, it must be hard for you, I would be confused as well, I am sure you will know what to do
sending a big hugs x

[clare bear]

youre not going on chic it must be hard for you. you know we are all here to give you some advice,hopefully it all helps.like i said chic all you can do is follow your heart.i hope you sort it out.lol.xxxxx

[clare bear]

the only prob is chic will he find it easy to slip back in to his old ways
i hope hes stopped the drugs but there is always that temptation. maybe having lilly will make him see that there is someone to change for.