a mate of mine

[fannylarking]

Originally Posted by ohsofair

Thank you for your advice thats sounds good. We are getting on better now and have talked about alot of things that went wrong and why ,no he didnt hit me,pushed me once , it was more shouting and putting me down.i do still love him and we have talked about getting back together but we both know thats there are things that need to be sorted out before that can happen. maybe we will ,maybe we wont but for now im just getting on with my life and taking one day at a time.

what ohsofair does not mention is that her ex actually got with someone else after she chucked him out. Quite funny really, as it was her that kicked him out and yet it is him that has managed to get his life back on track. He has been in a this "new" relationship for just over two years now, and they are about to move to a bigger house and announce their engagement along with their first pregnancy.

Amazing really what can happen, isn't it?

[krazykezz]

omg

[fannylarking]

Yes, krazykezz OMG.

she makes out that she is little miss hard done by, but what she does not tell anyone is that she stops him from seeing his kids all the time, because he will not get back with her. He was willing to try again for the sake of the kids, but realised that she is too controlling for him to have any life at all. His now girlfriend of two years has helped him so much over the years, has been there when he tried to over-dose, helped him through the dark times when he could not see his kids and has helped him to get help for his depression (which i may add was started by ohsofair). They are both very happy together and looking forward to the new arrival/s (twins run in the family).

[krazykezz]

sorry to be so rude but how do you know all of this?

[melanie]

Originally Posted by fannylarking

Yes, krazykezz OMG.

she makes out that she is little miss hard done by, but what she does not tell anyone is that she stops him from seeing his kids all the time, because he will not get back with her. He was willing to try again for the sake of the kids, but realised that she is too controlling for him to have any life at all. His now girlfriend of two years has helped him so much over the years, has been there when he tried to over-dose, helped him through the dark times when he could not see his kids and has helped him to get help for his depression (which i may add was started by ohsofair). They are both very happy together and looking forward to the new arrival/s (twins run in the family).

how do u know this?are u his new girlfriend?dont mean to be rude but u have not said how u know all this

[krazykezz]

i agree with u melanie, its all a bit strange if u ask me, especially the way the words have been put