My sons dad has disappeared off with his new girlfriend

[layla_1981]

Hi all, My sons dad disppeared with his new lass, and hasnt been in contact my son is gutted, his dad is his hero and now his birthday coming up he doesnt know where he is. Hes nearly 4 n he is blaming me n thinks he has been naughty, i dont know what to say or do, any advice

by the way new to this site, hoped someone might be able to help x

[ILoveToCount,Ahh,Ahh!]

Im so sorry to hear this has happened! hun, it must be heart breaking to see your little boy feeling like that. I have no real advice to give, but i just wanted you to know that there's someone here if you need to talk.

make sure that you let your boy know that its not his fault x

welcome to the site too, its just a pity that it wasnt a happier time for you.

[c.a.cullum]

hello.. sorry to hear wot u and ur son r going thru!!

all i can say is keep reassuriing ur son that its not his fault... tell him his daddy does still love him.... and so do u!! he needs to feel secure as his daddy walking out on him has made him feel insecure about himself and his life!!!

im sorry there's not anything else i can say to help but i really hope he gets thru this soon!!!

welcome to the site and weneva u need to chat, rant or need advice... we'r all here!!

[ILoveToCount,Ahh,Ahh!]

how are you and your son today?