never again !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[clare bear]

i got involved with a total loser. it was a few months before i met ant. he was younger than me, my sister was with his brother, so it was easy for us to see each other. well this one day my sis and i went to b ham to there flat, i wasnt ready to jump in to bed just like that so i said no. but that wasnt good enough i had my eye blacked. my sister was in the other room with her botfriend, they heard the shouting and ignored it. i got out of the flat and my sister brought me home a few hours later. i cant remember what i told my mum about my eye, but i had a mate called roger, when he saw me he went mad, he wanted to go and find the lad and beat him. anyway a few months later i met ant, ive never looked back, im just glad i got out of i when i did.

[zoelou88]

good 4 u, getting out at the first sign of violence as once its happened once it will happen again.

[jessica1602]

Best thing you did ,, getting out when you did.
I was in a violent relationship for 2 years, and even now ask my self why it took me 2 whole years to get out
Every time he hit me, he was very sorry and said it wouldnt happen again,, and i believed him.. that is the same line they all use.
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[claribel]

thats the best thing for u..got out asap! Lads like that boil my bkood, cant stand it!