not a bad relationship but

[clare bear]

chic you have really got to sort this out. i know i may sound harsh but hes livin ur life for u. hes a nobody. in the end it will come in between u and ur bf, and thats the last thing u want. have you thought of contacting some advice line for women, im sure there are someout there somewhere. they may be able to give u advice on what to do and where to go. chic while ur ttc this is the last thing you want. i know its hard but tell him NO, and that you dont want it anymore. if he keeps hasselin u just go to the police, they have got to look in to it. hope you get it all sorted chic lol

[c.a.cullum]

clare bear is rite hun... u got 2put a stop to this... tell ur b/f he's pestering u as u were wit him b4 ur b/f so u haven done anything wrong!! and r b/f will c that!!

this man has no hold on u wotsoeva... do not feel guilty and tell some1 wot he's dooing!! u wanna move on and b happy.. bt while he is lingering around u r unable to.. and im afraid to say that i think that is his plan!!

good luuck hun and hope it get sorted sooner rather than latr!! :smile:

[Sammy-mummy-to-Jake]

Hun
I am so sorry to hear this, but like everyone has said, you need to tell someone about this man, and get him out of you life once and for all.

good luck and let us know how you get on

xxx

[TearDrops-x]

Is everything ok now? I hope he backed of because what he was doing was out of order.

[ThatGirl]

isn't as bad as he was. he says he has feelings for me and he's nasty to me cos he cant show his feelings for me, he thinks he's in love with me

[TearDrops-x]

Do you love him back or is it just a one way thing? Is your boyfriend the same age or slightly older, I think maybe the bus driver has become possesive and jelous that you're in a relationship.

[clare bear]

chic i dont want to sound nasty but hey you need to put a stop to all this,you are ttc with your b/f. if the other man loved you then you would have a normal relationship,not just here and there. chic i think you really need to sit and do some thinking.

[ThatGirl]

he say's he's not bothered if i have a baby with my BF but he will always care for me and be my friend and he hopes everything turns out the way i plan. i love my bf and he's 18

for the bus driver i'm not sure apart of me does

and i remember saying the other night how ever you feel/felt for me there will never be 'us'

and he said i know that's the problem

then i said and however you feel/felt for me times it by 100 and it will still come no where near to how i feel/felt for him and he said that he knew and he was sorry so i told him there was no need to be but he said he was and there is a reason to be because he want's to show that side of him but cant!

[clare bear]

i dont know why chic but i wish i could give you a big HUG and say all will be ok.but chic you need to forget this man all together.put him in the past.do you sleep with him still(hope you dont mind me asking)

[ThatGirl]

i have once since i've been with my BF (bad girl) but thats cos me and my BF had a fall out but he knows about it becasue i'm not going to lie to him x