not a bad relationship but

[clare bear]

would it be so hard just to put all this in the past forget him and get on with your life with your b/f. my sister had an affair she lost everything.she had been with her b/f for 12 years,he thought the world of her.when she went behind his back he was totally gobsmacked.she has never forgot him,even though hes now married.ever since him she has not settled in a relationship with anyone. she had a b/f that wanted to give her the world but it didnt work coz she couldnt settle. take it from me chic get him out of your life,you will feel so much better without him in your life. (most of my mates call me there agony aunt )

[Sammy-mummy-to-Jake]

you need to forget him hun and move on xxx

[ThatGirl]

but i can't imagine life without him now he was there for me ages ago when no1 else was.... *sigh*

[Sammy-mummy-to-Jake]

awwww Hun, I know it must be hard, you must be very confused, but I am sure you will know what to do x

[ThatGirl]

thanks hun, i will always be his friend no matter what because under all this we have had serious convos and shared things with eachother x