sould i or sould i not

alexis · #1 08-08-2008, 07:35 PM

i know this is stupid
for 4 weeks i have been going out with a boy who i have been friends with for 11 years, we are very close and he is there for me no matter what and he even went with me to scans and every thing with out me asking. and last week he said he really likes me and i like him alot but im scared he is going to hurt me and my baby. sould i give him a chance and go out with him as bf/gf or sould i not and just stay as friends that is the big problem

Charlie_x · #2 08-08-2008, 08:46 PM

Sounds like you have a good thing here, if i was you i would go for it, at the end of the day do what you feel is right for you and your baby, if he makes you happy and he is happy to be there for the baby as well then do it

Lynne · #3 08-09-2008, 02:53 PM

I agree, if he is willing to take on the responsibility of a baby etc, then he must like u an awful lot. Go for it in my opinion but only if you feel it is whats best

CoNFuSeD24 · #4 08-09-2008, 08:33 PM

I agree and everyone else has said what I was going to say. hehe

claribel · #5 08-10-2008, 06:39 PM

yep i agree too. if he likes you so much hes willing to go to scans with you and stand by you even when you have your baby it just shows how much he likes you, and it probably isnt likely he'll hurt either of you. if ur unsure why not as him to take things slow and see how things go for a while without anything too serious and see what happens from there?

alexis · #6 08-10-2008, 11:21 PM

i thinking about talking to him about every thing and about how i feel soon but only time will tell, im still thinking about what to do but i think i have made my mind up.

Charlie_x · #7 08-11-2008, 12:07 PM

good luck with what you have chosen hun let us know how it goes!

alexis · #8 08-13-2008, 06:17 PM

well i talked to him today and every thing want good, we are going to try and go out as bf/gf and take things slow and he was really sweet about every thing i had to say and he said to me he wants to be with me when i give birth to charlie "i think i was going to faint when he said that" so it looks like i have a man who im not going to let go any time soon

stacy_elise · #9 08-13-2008, 06:45 PM

aww gud 4 u chick, thats great news.
takes a real man to bring up some one elses child let alone be there at the birth so think u may of found him.
hard to find a man like that so good on ya. x

Charlie_x · #10 08-13-2008, 08:03 PM

like elise said it takes a real man to bring up someone elses child, dont let go of him hun he sounds like a winner