Trying but...

[Bounty2009]

Hey there everyone, I was hoping for a bit of advice. My partner and I are trying for a baby, but he seems to have NO interest in sex right now. The first year we were together we would be intimate all the time, and I would say we would both initiate it equally. For the last few months, we only have sexy once or twice a week, and it is always me that initiates it. Lately as well he has started rejecting me which makes me so sad. Is this because he is worried about TTC or do you think he no longer finds me attractive or what? Please help, its getting me down a lot, especially when he rejects me. x

[Charlie_x]

1st of is he having a bad time at work or is something stressing him? sometimes guys go off sex to if something is bothering them etc, im sure he still fancies you have you tried asking him whats on his mind?

[Bounty2009]

Yeah I have tried to talk to him - nothing is bothering him at all. Work is great, we just moved into our new house (first time living together) we have a lovely home now; all is good. I got a bit paranoid and asked if he was having an affair or watching **** or something, as he used to not be able to go more than 48 hours really without ejaculating. So thats even more upsetting for me that I know that about him - now as far as I can tell it is once a week with me. He said he wasnt masturbating or having an affair, but just didnt have interest right now. Its really getting me down.

[CoNFuSeD24]

Hmm this is a tricky one. I would of said maybe something was stressing him out or he is worried about something. Maybe seeing as Valentine's Day is coming up try and plan something special... or just keep talking about it. Sometimes when dont always say what they are feeling right away...

[Charlie_x]

maybe hes not ready and hes trying to put it off